I make no secret that I loathe you and everything you and your colleagues say that they stand for. So don't pretend this bothers you.
The only reason you care what happened to Paul Pelosi was that he was an innocent victim. You don't care that Nancy Pelosi was the target You don't like her. You say as much in this article. You have no more use for her than the right wing people you criticize every day. If she'd have been killed, you might really have been upset, but you'd have outraged if AOC had just gotten a nasty tweet.
You may genuinely believe the rhetoric is harmful. But if you really think you're qualified to throw stones at the right wing, I'd look very carefully at the glass house you and your ilk live in. Pelosi has enough enemies. The last thing she needs is a 'friend' like you.