So to be clear you're apologizing for not believing her on the facts but you still completely hold true to your own original bigoted position. And I'm sure she'd loved to hear that you considered her psychologically vengeful because that would really clear things up Its a shame she can't hear the sincerity in your voice.

I honestly prefer people just to state vengeful and hate filled in their blogs. Just be the zealot we all know you are. if you offered this writer the apology in these words, do you really think they'd accept it?

I can't for the life of me comprehend why you wrote this piece. I'd honestly have prefered a diatribe from right wing media or some kind of conservative trope on why racism isn't really racism. I mean, when you inevitably comment on this you will save your harshest invectives for me and whatever slurs you have in mind.

This piece was not an apology. It wasn't meant to inspire debate. It was meant to tell us what a good person you were because you acknowledged that you were wrong about something while calling that same person trash and names. Don't try to pretend this piece wasn't all about your bigotry or that you won't just mute me if you disagree with it.